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Culture and Traditions

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TongaCulture and Traditions

Step into Tonga's rich tapestry of traditions and warm hospitality.

Tonga is a land deeply rooted in tradition and a stronghold of Christian worship. Let's understand the cultural tapestry:

Family first

Extended families rule the social scene. Father is the head, and Mom is the right-hand mate. But when it comes to siblings close in age, brothers take a back seat to their sisters. The family hierarchy even extends to the father's eldest sister, the leader of the nuclear family. Kids are free spirits, belonging to the entire family and often calling multiple households home.

Sunday serenity

Sunday's not your average day here—it's the day of rest. No business deals, sports, or any chores. It's the law. Tongans take Sundays seriously.

Courting customs

Dating? It's a family affair. Traditionally, a boy needs an audience with the girl's family; being alone before marriage is a no-go.

Cultural threads

Respect rules the roost. Oral storytelling keeps traditions alive, and being warm and hospitable is as natural as breathing. Tonga is full of positive vibes as it takes precedence. Mutual respect and loyalty are the keys to the cultural castle.

Mat weaving

Mat weaving isn't just a craft; it's a tradition. Gathering to weave mats is a social ritual here, and these mats are like family heirlooms passed down through the ages. 

Compliments

Give them freely, but don't overdo it, or your host might feel gift-bound. A first-name basis is cool, but titles and family names show respect, especially when meeting someone new.

Dance and delicacies

Tongan dance isn't just a performance; it's a shared experience. A gift of appreciation is customary. Tattoos, feasts, handicrafts, and kava sessions add more flavours to the cultural pot.

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